Dating an angry man and abuse
He/she may question you about whom you have spoken to or seen during the day, may accuse you of flirting, or be jealous of time you spend with family, friends, children or hobbies which do not include him/her.
As the jealousy progresses, he/she may call you frequently during the day or drop by unexpectedly.
I stayed, longer than I should have stayed, because my faith in the lord was strong enough that I ‘knew’ I would live. Until then, questioning my readiness only pushes me further away from the idea. Two – I can’t get over it because my life has been forever changed.Trying to find a job, without a car, was embarrassing and difficult. And I lived in a home for the next several months knowing that, at any moment, he could walk back into my life (and my house) because he knew where I was and he knew that my back window was broken out (because he shattered it with his left fist). But when things began to become abusive and I seriously questioned whether or not I’d be given the opportunity to wake up the following morning, I became an evangelical Christian. If dating were the answer, I would’ve started already.I PRAYED and pleaded and THANKED god that he was there, looking over me and keeping me alive. Yes, at some point, I have to start seeing other people again, but I deserve to (and will) give myself enough time to feel ready before I allow someone to buy me dinner.While not all abusive people show the same traits, or display the tendencies to the same extent, if several behavioural traits are present, there is a strong tendency toward abusiveness.Generally, the more warning signs are present, the greater the likelihood of violence.